please help sort out mail trace

I followed the steps linked below, or tried to but there is no Message Trace tab in Exchange 2013 administrator panel

Message Trace

I can not send any outgoing mail VIA the internet on a new install 

port 25 is blocked by my ISP so I changed it to port 26 

ALL send and receive connectors are created and appear correct per all the KB's I have read

I want to see a message trace to find out exactly where the send is failing.

Please help me save my sanity!!!  :)

David Sheetz MCP